Wednesday, September 17, 2014

Moonshot Thinking



Moonshot thinking.  Many of us have never even heard of the term. I hadn’t until today.  We had our monthly leadership meeting at work where all the managers and leaders get together and usually pat each other on the back for whatever good thing they got accomplished this month.  Today was different.  There were 2 guest speakers who have regular day jobs but on the side they go around and talk to businesses about moonshot thinking and how to change the dynamic of your organization.  The premise is that you take this fantastic goal, something that you would love to do and think more than anything is nearly impossible to achieve.  Much like Kennedy saying we were going to put a man on the moon but hadn’t even created the technology or had any idea how it could happen.  They just knew they wanted to so they started creating the plans. 
One of the most important things I took away from the meeting was that just as I have been saying in my blog posts there is power in partnership.  If you hold all your cards to your chest and don’t share any information then the organization cannot grow.  You must trust that the team you have is capable and has valuable input in the process.  When you take one person’s ideas you are just dealing with what that one person knows.  If you have 10, 20, 50, 100 people all putting in their input you are creating what is called social capital.  It is a dynamic approach at creating an organization that is highly communicative, energetic, passionate about the relationships with their teams, and supportive of one another.  How many companies out there that you have worked for have you felt that way?  Usually you are just trying to keep your head above water and get the pertinent information out before the entire building burns to the ground.  If you approach it from a standpoint of collaborative work then you are not putting out fires you are creating fires within the team you are leading.  
One of the speakers said that leadership is not a position it is a decision and that in any organization you will have 18% of the team that are toxically disengaged, 50% that are just disengaged and 32% that are highly motivated and interested in pushing the business forward.  If you just step in and build a relationship with the team and create the vision and mission with them they are more likely to engage in what they are doing.  Be clear in what your mission and goals are and when you create mission driven leadership you will have a team that is actively engaged. 
The exercise below was one they had us do at the beginning of their presentation and it helped me realize what I am interested in doing with my life.  I am starting a leadership organization that will focus on life/work coaching, mentoring and inspiring teams and leaders.  That is my moonshot.  

So I will pose the same question to you:  

What is your moonshot? 
        - What makes it important to you?
        - How do you communicate that vision? 
        - What supports do you need to achieve it?


 


Tuesday, September 16, 2014

Success is not for the lazy



I saw a quote once that said “Intensity is not for everyone – neither is success.”  You must be willing to be intense, scary, loud, excited, passionate and most of all be willing to go to extremes for your goals otherwise don’t even bother setting any. 
I drag my feet sometimes because something I am working on isn’t exactly exciting or isn’t igniting my passion.  It is during this time that I can find yet another great sitcom on Netflix to watch, see what’s happening on Facebook again or find another awesome Pinterest page to get sucked into.  Now I am not saying that you don’t need downtime and that Pinterest and Facebook aren’t helpful in inspiring you but really you should be asking yourself why am I not working on something that does push my levels of creativity rather than working on something I find boring and tedious.  If you are serious about a goal then you will do whatever you need to in order to achieve it.  If you make excuses then you know you are not that interested.  My boot camp instructor says you must be “committed not inspired.”  Commitment takes over where inspiration stops.  It’s great to be inspired by something or someone but what are you going to commit to?  Are you willing to make the ultimate sacrifice? Are you willing to push for everything you want?  Are you willing to overcome the resistance that keeps holding you back? (Thank you Jason Rasset for suggesting I read the War of Art). 
I hate should haves or could haves.  There is no room in your life for those statements.  You must be willing to sacrifice everything to be successful.  You must go forward in your life with purpose and shake things up. My favorite quote is change is the only consistency and I know that in order to be successful you must be willing to change.  So my commitment starts now.  I know that in order for my blog to be successful I need to write every day.  I need to refocus my energy away from the “time sucks” that I keep falling back on and I need to realize my goals and my success are bigger than my fear of failure.
What are you committing to today?

Sunday, September 7, 2014

Why you should do what makes you happy...



There are hundreds of ways every day that we can make a difference in someone’s life.  Sometimes you have no idea that the conversation you are having is changing that person’s outlook and thoughts on where they are in life.  I know for me I am always trying to be supportive and helpful and when I see someone struggling with issues (many of which I have and still deal with) I want to reach out and help them.  I want them to know they are not alone and that even the most successful people have setbacks and struggles.  It is the fact that these people don’t let it get them down that makes them most successful.  I tend to motivate others when I am struggling the most myself because I know it takes the focus off of me and in helping others I am actually helping myself.  

Yesterday my younger brother and I were talking about his photography and art and how not having a website or Facebook page is a lost opportunity.  My brother has overcome some amazing hurdles in his life and I told him that it would be a tragedy to waste this second chance you have been given by not doing what you love.  Put yourself out there, find your passion, show off your talents and I promise you that you will be successful and happy and the second you are truly happy all the pieces will fall into place.  I believe that the key to happiness is being at peace with yourself and knowing that while your life may not be exactly where you want it to be - you are exactly where you are supposed to be.   

Doug, go out and create a passionate, fulfilling life – you deserve it. 


Monday, September 1, 2014

What a wonderful world

I sat down to write this and thought about what to talk about today and many things came to mind.  The struggles with working out, eating healthy, pants not fitting, work not satisfying enough or wishing I could be closer to the people I care about and then it hit me.  Even with all these "little" things going on in my life I am incredibly blessed and decided that I would only talk about being grateful for the things I do have.  I am healthy - after having back surgery in 2003 I can run and do the things I love to do.  I have wonderful friends and family who care about me and do awesome things everyday to show they value our relationship. My job is stable and while some days it frustrates me it challenges me more than I have ever been challenged.  I have a beautiful new condo that is mine.  I can paint the walls and do what I want to it because I bought it. Right now I am sitting on the back patio listening to my FREE fountain splash while watching the birds fly around getting their last meal in for the day and I think just like Louis Armstrong said - what a wonderful world.  Happy Labor Day everyone. 

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